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Michelle Elisabeth Varghese's avatar

Such great advice and a good reminder to experience life over worrying about how all the pieces will come together.

"Your twenties are a time for expansion and discovery. Being anxious about not knowing your place in the world is a waste of time & energy."

This is something I wish was more clear to people in their twenties, and even beyond.

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Leo Ariel's avatar

Wait till you see my next postcard. You’ll love it.

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Michelle Elisabeth Varghese's avatar

I'm looking forward to it!!

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Leo Ariel's avatar

How old are you @Michelle? Still 20s..? Maybe I should write a “How to Make The Most Of Your 30s” article 😎

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Michelle Elisabeth Varghese's avatar

Hahaha it depends on the day 😉 but I'd love to read that too. I want to know how to make the most out of every decade!

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Leslie Sam Kim's avatar

I would love to read your advice for 30s!

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Rick Lewis's avatar

I'd venture to say your advice is relevant to anyone who wants to live a happy, fulfilling and growth-oriented life. The picture does change a bit if you have kids of your own, but a version of the kind of risk-taking, exploring and self-reflection you're endorsing is forever useful.

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Leslie Sam Kim's avatar

Thanks Rick! Actually super encouraging to hear that you find it relevant post-30.

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Helen's avatar

Love how poignant and relatable your stories are! I LOL-ed at the "taking the bus" part haha -- I do it all the time and can attest to it being (1) scary occasionally especially in the US and (2) fascinating all the time, no matter where it is.

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Leslie Sam Kim's avatar

I used to travel only by bike+bus because I lost my drivers license for a while (long embarrassing story). And instantly it was like living another life.

I'm always surprised how many of my friends have never ridden the bus or just refuse to.

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Helen's avatar

Ohhhh then we absolutely need to get together some time and talk about taking the bus! Those have been real trips in figurative and metaphorical ways.

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Leslie Sam Kim's avatar

Let's do it!!!!!

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Sandra Yvonne's avatar

"Go to the nicest neighborhood you can find and post up at a park or coffee shop and eavesdrop on conversations. Then take the bus in a rougher neighborhood and listen to what the people on the bus are talking about and how they live."

I love this one. I think people severely overlook how much they can learn from others in their own backyard and how eye-opening it can be to actually explore your own city.

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